We are where we want to be

I often ask my friends and myself the question “If you could picture your life in any way at all and be doing anything you want in any country in the world, what would your life look like?”. They are often surprised by their answer. Because most of them say that actually they would be doing exactly what they are doing right now in their life. And in the place that they are already living in. And despite perhaps a few small differences, like having more money etc, they are in fact doing exactly what they want to be doing.

Take me for example, if I ask myself the question “How do you want your life to look at this precise moment if you could be doing anything at all and living anywhere you want in the world?”. “What would your life look like?”. The answer is that I would be doing EXACTLY what I am doing right now in the place that I am indeed living in. My life would be in London, as it is now. And I’d be writing. I’d be expressing myself through words every day in order to help others. Because that is what makes me happy. My reality? I am writing of course. Right now and every day.

Ultimately, happiness for me lies in helping others. This is what makes me tick. I am also a personal trainer and indian head massage therapist by profession. Over the last 8 years of being in this industry, I have helped 100’s of people reach a number of their goals. I have made a positive difference to their lives. And if someone would ask me how I would want my life to look and what I would be doing in my dream life, I would tell them that I would be helping others on a daily basis to become happier and healthier. And that is again, exactly what I am doing right now. I am therefore living my dream life. Although I sometimes forget that. What a blessing that is.

So the moral of the story my dears, is that we are often striding through life trying to reach goals and aiming for something which we probably already have. How awesome is that? I mean of course it would be great if perhaps I was being paid to write and that would really be a dream of mine come true but I love writing so much that if someone told me that I would be writing for the rest of my life and I would never make a dime from it, I would still be a very happy bunny. And I would just feel lucky that I even had the chance to be able to write. (If anyone is reading this that would like to pay me to write stuff though, absolutely go ahead ;)).

So there we have it. Relax my friends. Your life is exactly how it should be at this moment in time. Enjoy it.

Thanks for reading and have a blessed day,

Han xxx

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